INTRODUCING YOURSELF TO A MISTRESS

MISTRESS K WEARING LONG PVC OPERA GLOVES, A PVC CORSET DRESS AND LATEX CHOKER WITH HER HAIR CLIPPED BACK AND HER EVER PRESENT RED LIPSTICK

I feel it is pertinent to make a post on this subject since many of you seem to have forgotten your primary school lessons on how to write a clear, concise introduction.

When you introduce yourself to a Mistress, think bold and with a hint of personality rather than stiff and formal. Start by confidently sharing the basics: “Hello Mistress K, I’m [Your Name], [Your Age] and based in [Location]. While I spend my days [your job/what you do for a living], I’ve decided it’s time to spend a little of my free time under the training of a strong, powerful woman such as yourself.” This way, you’re offering her a snapshot of who you are without sounding like you’re rattling off a résumé. Then smoothly pivot into what you’re after: “I’d like to book a [session length] session with you on [date].” Simple and direct is key because you must remember that you are one of dozens of request she has received that day and she should not have to pry the information from you...you should always be prepared.

Once the introduction is set, you can lace in some general information on your preferred activities while still respecting her role. Instead of meekly asking, phrase your preferences with confidence in your submission: “I have had thoughts of submission for most of my life and I would very much like to explore this side of me. My favourite kinks/fetishes are [insert preferred kinks/activities here] and my limits are [insert limits here]. I have read your website thoroughly and hope that I am not crossing any boundaries."

Nothing is more un appealing than a sub who is indecisive and unsure of his position. Confidence as a submissive is not a negative quality, you should be confident ensure of who you are and your place in the world.

Above all else, read a Mistress' website thoroughly. She should not have to repeat herself or give you answers to questions that are readily available on her website nor should she have to claw information out of you for the most basic interaction. Showing that you have read everything shows respect to the Mistress.